Meet on video first. Own your profile.
Three-minute video dates with verified people near you, wherever you live. No catfish, no endless texting, and your data stays yours.
In every city, everyone's online at once, so you can go from match to video date in minutes.
How it works
Get verified
Scan your ID and take a quick selfie. Every person you see has done the same.
Record a 30-second intro
Say hello in your own voice. Only verified members can see it.
Get five intros a day
A short list of people near you, picked with care. No endless swiping.
Have a three-minute video date
When you both like each other, meet on video right away or during Live Hours.
Both say yes, then talk
Your choice stays private. Chat opens only when you both want to keep talking.
Safety comes first
Real, verified adults
ID and liveness checks at signup. People under 18 can't join, and banned accounts can't sign up again.
Report in one tap
From any profile, call, or chat. Serious reports suspend the account while we review, within 24 hours.
You choose what you see
Comfort View blurs nudity in video dates unless you turn it off. End a call and report in one tap. Video dates are never recorded.
Date plans, shared
Send a trusted friend where and when you're meeting, straight from the app.
Your data, your call
A verification you keep
After your check, you hold a credential proving you're a verified adult. We delete your ID images.
Private messages
Chats are end-to-end encrypted. Only you and your match can read them.
Take it with you
Download your profile, likes, and settings anytime.
Leave for real
Delete your account and everything goes within 30 days. No ads, and we never sell your data.
Pricing
Prices are set in local currency for each country.
Free
- 5 intros a day
- Live Hours
- 3-minute video dates
- Encrypted chat after a mutual yes
Plus
- 8 intros a day
- See who liked you
- One rewind a day
- 10-minute video dates
Mixers
- Monthly in-person events
- Verified members only
- Plus members save
Bring Ondami to your city
We open city by city, so there are always enough people near you for a video date. Cities with the most waitlist signups open first.